<!-- the popup that is displayed if user moves rows -->
<Popup
  x:Name="popup1"
  IsHitTestVisible="False"
  Placement="RelativePoint"
  PlacementTarget="{Binding ElementName=me}"
  AllowsTransparency="True">
  <Border
    BorderBrush="{DynamicResource CellBorderBrush}"
    BorderThickness="2"
    Background="White"
    Opacity="0.75">
    <StackPanel
      Orientation="Horizontal"
      Margin="4,3,8,3">
      <Image
        Source="/Shared/Images/DragInsert.png"
        Width="16"
        Height="16" />
      <TextBlock
        Style="{DynamicResource DefaultLabel}"
        FontWeight="Bold"
        VerticalAlignment="Center"
        Text="{Binding ElementName=me, Path=DraggedItem.Name}"
        Margin="8,0,0,0" />
    </StackPanel>
  </Border>
</Popup>

<dg:DataGrid
  BeginningEdit="OnBeginEdit"
  CellEditEnding="OnEndEdit"
  .. />

/// <summary>
/// State flag which indicates whether the grid is in edit
/// mode or not.
/// </summary>
public bool IsEditing { get; set; }

private void OnBeginEdit(object sender, DataGridBeginningEditEventArgs e)
{
  IsEditing = true;
  //in case we are in the middle of a drag/drop operation, cancel it...
  if (IsDragging) ResetDragDrop();
}

private void OnEndEdit(object sender, DataGridCellEditEndingEventArgs e)
{
  IsEditing = false;
}

private void OnMouseLeftButtonDown(object sender, MouseButtonEventArgs e)
{
  //exit if in edit mode
  if (IsEditing) return;

  //find the clicked row
  var row = UIHelpers.TryFindFromPoint<DataGridRow>((UIElement) sender,
                                                    e.GetPosition(shareGrid));
  if (row == null) return;

  //set flag that indicates we're capturing mouse movements
  IsDragging = true;
  DraggedItem = (IShareConfiguration) row.Item;
}

/// <summary>
/// Completes a drag/drop operation.
/// </summary>
private void OnMouseLeftButtonUp(object sender, MouseButtonEventArgs e)
{
  if (!IsDragging || IsEditing)
  {
    return;
  }

  //get the target item
  ShareConfiguration targetItem = (ShareConfiguration) shareGrid.SelectedItem;

  if (targetItem == null || !ReferenceEquals(DraggedItem, targetItem))
  {
    //remove the source from the list
    ShareList.Remove(DraggedItem);

    //get target index
    var targetIndex = ShareList.IndexOf(targetItem);

    //move source at the target's location
    ShareList.Insert(targetIndex, DraggedItem);

    //select the dropped item
    shareGrid.SelectedItem = DraggedItem;
  }

  //reset
  ResetDragDrop();
}

/// <summary>
/// Completes a drag/drop operation.
/// </summary>
private void OnMouseLeftButtonUp(object sender, MouseButtonEventArgs e)
{
  if (!IsDragging || IsEditing || shareGrid.SelectedItem == null)
  {
    return;
  }
  
  //get the target item
  IShareConfiguration targetItem = (IShareConfiguration)shareGrid.SelectedItem;

  if (!ReferenceEquals(DraggedItem, targetItem))
  {
    //the actual business logic that works on source and target
  }

  //reset
  ResetDragDrop();
}

/// <summary>
/// Closes the popup and resets the
/// grid to read-enabled mode.
/// </summary>
private void ResetDragDrop()
{
  IsDragging = false;
  popup1.IsOpen = false;
  shareGrid.IsReadOnly = false;      
}

<!-- fires even if the user does not click a given row -->
<dg:DataGrid
  dg:DataGridRow.MouseDoubleClick="OnDoubleClick" />

<!-- just register a listener on the grid -->
<dg:DataGrid
  MouseDoubleClick="OnDoubleClick" />

/// <summary>
/// Handles double-clicks on datagrid rows.
/// </summary>
private void OnDoubleClick(object sender, MouseButtonEventArgs e)
{
  //search the object hierarchy for a datagrid row
  DependencyObject source = (DependencyObject) e.OriginalSource;
  var row = UIHelpers.TryFindParent<DataGridRow>(source);

  //the user did not click on a row
  if (row == null) return;

  //[insert great code here...]

  e.Handled = true;
}

/// <summary>
/// Finds a parent of a given item on the visual tree.
/// </summary>
/// <typeparam name="T">The type of the queried item.</typeparam>
/// <param name="child">A direct or indirect child of the
/// queried item.</param>
/// <returns>The first parent item that matches the submitted
/// type parameter. If not matching item can be found, a null
/// reference is being returned.</returns>
public static T TryFindParent<T>(this DependencyObject child)                               where T : DependencyObject
{
  //get parent item
  DependencyObject parentObject = GetParentObject(child);

  //we've reached the end of the tree
  if (parentObject == null) return null;

  //check if the parent matches the type we're looking for
  T parent = parentObject as T;
  if (parent != null)
  {
    return parent;
  }
  else
  {
    //use recursion to proceed with next level
    return TryFindParent<T>(parentObject);
  }
}

/// <summary>
/// This method is an alternative to WPF's
/// <see cref="VisualTreeHelper.GetParent"/> method, which also
/// supports content elements. Keep in mind that for content element,
/// this method falls back to the logical tree of the element!
/// </summary>
/// <param name="child">The item to be processed.</param>
/// <returns>The submitted item's parent, if available. Otherwise
/// null.</returns>
public static DependencyObject GetParentObject(this DependencyObject child)
{
  if (child == null) return null;
  
  //handle content elements separately
  ContentElement contentElement = child as ContentElement;
  if (contentElement != null)
  {
    DependencyObject parent = ContentOperations.GetParent(contentElement);
    if (parent != null) return parent;

    FrameworkContentElement fce = contentElement as FrameworkContentElement;
    return fce != null ? fce.Parent : null;
  }

  //also try searching for parent in framework elements (such as DockPanel, etc)
  FrameworkElement frameworkElement = child as FrameworkElement;
  if (frameworkElement != null)
  {
    DependencyObject parent = frameworkElement.Parent;
    if (parent != null) return parent;
  }

  //if it's not a ContentElement/FrameworkElement, rely on VisualTreeHelper
  return VisualTreeHelper.GetParent(child);
}

<dg:DataGrid
  x:Name="platforms"
  ItemsSource="{Binding Path=Track.Platforms, ElementName=me}"
  SelectedItem="{Binding Path=ActivePlatform, ElementName=me}">

<!-- column definitions -->

</dg:DataGrid>

<dg:DataGrid.Columns>
  <!-- fixed size column -->
  <dg:DataGridTextColumn
    Header="Name"
    Width="60" 
    Binding="{Binding Path=ItemName}" />
  <!-- takes 2/3 of the remaining space -->
  <dg:DataGridTextColumn
    Header="Description"
    Width="2*"
    Binding="{Binding Path=Description}" />
  <!-- takes 1/3 of the remaining space -->
  <dg:DataGridTextColumn
    Header="Position"
    Width="*"
    Binding="{Binding Path=StartPosition}" />
</dg:DataGrid.Columns>